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Who deserves an apology from you, and for what?

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My kids. I think if you don’t want to say sorry to your kids you’ve been an appalling parent.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 1 February 2025 source ↗
Most of the people I dated between 23 and 33. It feels crazy to me that I ever thought that I could be anyone’s girlfriend before I figured out the things I’ve now figured out.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 29 November 2025 source ↗
To my mother for disappointing her. Mummy wanted me to be a different sort of person from who I am, but one can’t change oneself.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 19 July 2025 source ↗
Andi Oliver British cook, television and radio broadcaster, singer
To my brother, because when we were kids I didn’t understand his illness and it used to irritate me.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 December 2021 source ↗

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