I very often set my heart on things – and if they don’t happen, I’m not great at dealing with disappointment.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 20 April 2024 source ↗
The question
Which trait in yourself do you like least?Originally asked
The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A
The Guardian's The Q&A has retained this Proust-derived prompt from at least 2007 through 2026, and ABC independently put it to the Obamas in 2011.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
I very often set my heart on things – and if they don’t happen, I’m not great at dealing with disappointment.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 20 April 2024 source ↗
Self-destruction.
I’m very impatient – next question.
I don’t think anyone should deplore anything about themselves. You can always improve things, but by deploring you’re putting yourself on a losing streak.
Self-denigration, an old strategy for extorting praise from people. (“I am a terrible person.” “No, you’re a wonderful person and we all love you.”)
Jacinda Ardern, the former New Zealand prime minister – for embodying a different, more compassionate politics.
Passionate, mum, green.
People remember how you make them feel more than they remember what you say or do.
Being on my deathbed and realising I’d forgotten to treat each day as the miracle that it is.
A holiday job as a chambermaid at the Scratchwood Travelodge on the M1. The state some people leave their rooms in was a revelation.
Winning the first Green seat in parliament – although that’s cheating, really, as it was very much a collective achievement by the whole party.
Barack Obama, Jon Snow, Bob Schieffer, Keir Starmer, Malala Yousafzai, Bill Clinton
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