I’ve learned to give myself a break. Everyone should.
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You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 18 April 2026 source ↗
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View all 262 →I noticed I did have an anger. Many people have anger and I was one of them.
I thought that I had lost for a reason, and I thought that I was a little unseasoned and immature, and I had — the way I made decisions my first term, I got a lot done, but I was better at doing what I wanted to do than listening to other people about what they thought I should be doing or how they thought I ought to be doing it.
Insecurity around money. I have this profound insecurity about not having enough to provide for my family.
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View profile →When I was growing up, my mother would accuse me of showing off. That’s the most shaming, humbling, horrible thing. What was I doing? Showing off!
I was stabbed in my 20s. It was a late-night mugging and, while taking my wallet, they stabbed me in my chest.
Now that I’m at this end of my career, I’m gobsmacked that I’ve managed to cling on for as long as I have.
Back in the day, when comedy was crueller, my monologues were full of terrible jokes about people, and you can’t apologise because then you’re asking people to forgive you. Your punishment is to walk around knowing you said these horrible things.
I called Elizabeth McGovern Elizabeth Montgomery throughout a show. But, bless her, she didn’t say anything.
I couldn’t care less.
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