To my father, for the time that was lost when we weren’t getting along. We were able to reconcile a few months before he passed away five years ago.
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My parents. We didn’t realise how absolutely desperate they were when we left Germany, because my father couldn’t earn anything. A letter turned up fairly recently in which he said, “We’ve been through a terrible time because Julia [my mother] never stopped talking about suicide and not just for herself, but to take the children with her.”
To the Scissor Sisters. Back in the day, I could be an absolute monster; I was a real asshole.
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I called Elizabeth McGovern Elizabeth Montgomery throughout a show. But, bless her, she didn’t say anything.
Our wedding weekend in Ireland.
When I was growing up, my mother would accuse me of showing off. That’s the most shaming, humbling, horrible thing. What was I doing? Showing off!
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