Who most deserves an apology from you, and why?

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Recorded Graham Norton said elsewhere, not written here
Back in the day, when comedy was crueller, my monologues were full of terrible jokes about people, and you can’t apologise because then you’re asking people to forgive you. Your punishment is to walk around knowing you said these horrible things.

The Q&A, The Guardian, 18 April 2026 source ↗

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Busta Rhymes American rapper
To my father, for the time that was lost when we weren’t getting along. We were able to reconcile a few months before he passed away five years ago.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 19 December 2020 source ↗
Mo Farah British track and field athlete
Probably my wife, because sometimes I do crazy things.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 27 April 2019 source ↗
Judith Kerr British writer and illustrator
My parents. We didn’t realise how absolutely desperate they were when we left Germany, because my father couldn’t earn anything. A letter turned up fairly recently in which he said, “We’ve been through a terrible time because Julia [my mother] never stopped talking about suicide and not just for herself, but to take the children with her.”
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 18 May 2019 source ↗
Jake Shears Singer and songwriter; co-lead vocalist of Scissor Sisters
To the Scissor Sisters. Back in the day, I could be an absolute monster; I was a real asshole.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 17 July 2021 source ↗

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