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Discipline. Also to have a goal, however small and whatever it may be.
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Mohamed ElBaradei
Director General of the International Atomic Energy Agency, 1997-2009; Nobel Peace Prize 2005
I think that is the most important lesson you learn in life, that you have to be ready to make a compromise. You do not compromise your principles, but you have to be ready to compromise. You have to understand that you cannot get your way 100 percent. Life is too complicated. You are not an island, and you work in a social setting, and you need to understand that you work always — at the family level, at the society level — to work out the compromise that is perceived to be fair. You don’t get 100 percent of what you want, but at least you will get the basic minimum that you require.
Kevin Rowland
British singer
Shakespeare said, “There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so” – I think that’s true.
Life is never fair.
If you commit to it, you won’t ever stop learning.
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As a force for good and a champion of the underdog.
Aggression without provocation or consequences.
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