In their forties

Mid-career, and the decade in which people are most often asked what their job actually consists of.

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What is something you were told by a parent, teacher, or mentor that you still repeat to yourself?

Elan Lee

Game designer; co-creator of Exploding Kittens

There’s a few that are immediate, because he just drilled them into my head. One is “Nothing attracts a crowd like a crowd.” Try as hard as you want to market something, get a crowd.

Recorded · The Tim Ferriss Show · 2023

Lynsey Addario

Photojournalist and war photographer; Pulitzer Prize winner, 2009

My parents also said, “Don’t follow money. Follow your heart and you’ll be successful.” That’s all they told me and my sisters.

Recorded · American Academy of Achievement · 2017

David Oyelowo

Actor, director and producer

“David, you are going to walk among kings.” This was my mum’s prophecy when I was small. My father is from a royal family in Nigeria, so I interpreted it that way.

Recorded · The Observer / The Guardian · 2025

Sachin Tendulkar

India Test and one-day international cricketer, 1989–2013

He gave me freedom at the age of 11, and told me that [I should] chase my dreams, but make sure you do not find short cuts.

Recorded · The Hindu · 2013

Henry R. Kravis

Financier; co-founder of Kohlberg Kravis Roberts & Co.

One person that is my role model is my father. ... He’s a man who taught me something very important. And that was — give back to society what you’ve taken out.

Recorded · Academy of Achievement · 1991

Whose work makes you jealous?

Dax Shepard

Actor and film-maker; host of the Armchair Expert podcast

I would always be tempted to take a movie I liked less if the payday was twice as much, and I’ve interviewed a couple people that grew up with wealth and I’ve watched them navigate their…

Recorded · The Tim Ferriss Show · 2020

Darren Aronofsky

Film director; Requiem for a Dream, The Wrestler, Black Swan

I think I’ve always been jealous of musicians. You hear the story where Bob Dylan wrote a song in the afternoon and it became the anthem for a generation.

Recorded · The Tim Ferriss Show · 2018

Jacinda Ardern

Prime Minister of New Zealand, 2017–2023; Leader of the Labour Party 2017–2023

Recently I had the privilege of joining ex German Chancellor, Angela Merkel on a panel. I have long been in awe of her leadership, not least for her endurance. She was in power for 16 years.

Recorded · Harvard Magazine · 2022

Aside from a property, what is the most expensive thing you have bought?

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Beverley Knight

Singer and stage actor

I am a shoe and bag freak. I shelled out for a Chanel handbag on eBay and it was still four figures!

Recorded · The Guardian · 2022

Julie Hesmondhalgh

English actress and narrator

An old camper van that has cost me more in repairs than my house, my wedding and all the holidays I’ve ever been on.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2018

Francesca Martinez

British comedian

I don’t own a property. The carpet in our flat; it’s not fancy or anything.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2020

Cat Deeley

English television presenter

Art. I recently bought a Sean Scully painting, I have a Damien Hirst, a Tracey Emin, a Polly Morgan snake and a couple of Jonathan Yeos.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2021

Katherine Parkinson

English actor

A Chanel dress. I bought it with my first proper paycheck and it was ridiculously expensive. It is also hideous.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2020

Carlos Acosta

Cuban ballet dancer

A 1955 Jaguar XK120. It was not in very good condition and, little by little, I brought it back to its former splendour.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2018

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