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In their forties

Mid-career, and the decade in which people are most often asked what their job actually consists of.

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Whose work makes you envious?

Dax Shepard

Actor and film-maker; host of the Armchair Expert podcast

Recorded · The Tim Ferriss Show · 2020

I would always be tempted to take a movie I liked less if the payday was twice as much, and I’ve interviewed a couple people that grew up with wealth and I’ve watched them navigate their…
Darren Aronofsky

Film director; Requiem for a Dream, The Wrestler, Black Swan

Recorded · The Tim Ferriss Show · 2018

I think I’ve always been jealous of musicians. You hear the story where Bob Dylan wrote a song in the afternoon and it became the anthem for a generation.
Jacinda Ardern

Prime Minister of New Zealand, 2017–2023; Leader of the Labour Party 2017–2023

Recorded · Harvard Magazine · 2022

Recently I had the privilege of joining ex German Chancellor, Angela Merkel on a panel. I have long been in awe of her leadership, not least for her endurance. She was in power for 16 years.

Excluding property, what is the most expensive thing you have ever bought?

Originally asked

The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A

The Guardian's weekly The Q&A repeatedly uses this standing prompt, with minor contractions and word-order variation.

You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.

Emilia Fox

English actress and presenter

Recorded · The Guardian · 2018

A birthday present I hoped would mean a lot to the person. I had their family history researched and a book made.
Romola Garai

Recorded · The Guardian · 2024

My short film, Scrubber, in 2011. At that time in my life it seemed easier to pay for it myself than to apply for funds.
Susan Calman

Scottish comedian

Recorded · The Guardian · 2018

A Tiffany watch for my wife. The security guard was following us, so I deliberately bought a really expensive watch to prove we had money. I don’t think I’ve seen her wear it.
Warwick Davis

English actor

Recorded · The Guardian · 2017

Our campervan. It’s fully kitted out, sleeps four and lowers down, so we can get in and out easily.
Jake Shears

Singer and songwriter; co-lead vocalist of Scissor Sisters

Recorded · The Guardian · 2021

A Henry Darger painting. Sadly, I lost it in the divorce, but it was a great parting gift.

As a child, what career or life did you imagine for yourself?

Originally asked

The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A

This is a standing question in The Guardian's decades-long The Q&A and also recurs independently in career and life interviews.

You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.

Ashley Jensen

Scottish actress and narrator

Recorded · The Guardian · 2017

I did want to be an actor from an early age although I briefly dabbled with the idea of being a vet until I realised you had to stick your hand up a cow’s arse.
Shinya Yamanaka

Stem cell biologist; Nobel laureate in Physiology or Medicine, 2012

Recorded · Academy of Achievement · 2008

I was born in Osaka, Japan. It was 45 years ago. My father has a small factory in Osaka, and we lived next to his factory
Melissa McCarthy

American actress

Recorded · The Guardian · 2019

I wanted to make women’s clothing. I also said that I wanted to be an artist; I don’t think I ever said I wanted to be an actress, but I remember thinking that would be fun.

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