Identity & self

What did you want to be when you were growing up?

232 answers answered between 1930 and 2026 one of 25 in The Q&A

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Kurt Vonnegut Novelist and essayist
I was going to be a journalist. But after the war I studied anthropology, just in order to become educated. I thought it was worth knowing the science of man. I still intended to become a journalist, but there were no jobs, because the reporters who had gone to war were coming back and were entitled to their jobs, and the women who had replaced them were damned if they’d leave, and they shouldn’t have left.
Recorded Frank Houston, Salon, 8 October 1999 source ↗
J.K. Rowling Novelist and screenwriter
Always… as soon as I knew what writers were, I wanted to be one. I’ve got the perfect temperament for a writer; perfectly happy alone in a room, making things up.
Recorded J.K. Rowling official website, 15 May 2004 source ↗
Alan Dale New Zealand actor
As a kid I used to fantasize about being Clayton Moore, the masked hero in The Lone Ranger. I’m much too old to play him now – I’d have to be the baddie who he kills – although I do have a horse as King Arthur, well someone clopping along behind me with a pair of coconuts.
Recorded 20 Questions With …, WhatsOnStage, 10 March 2008 source ↗
Alexander Armstrong English actor, comedian, broadcaster and singer
When I was little I wanted to be a conductor. I knew there was a man in a smart coat who waved his arms around at the opera and I thought: "There's the job for me."
Recorded Laura Potter, This much I know, The Guardian, 13 March 2010 source ↗
Alain de Botton Writer and philosopher; founder of The School of Life
At 12, I wanted to be an architect, at 18, a writer, and now, at forty, an architect again. I’m powerfully drawn to everything related to building, but I also love ideas. These are my two passions.
Recorded John Purcell, Ten Terrifying Questions, The Booktopian, 6 February 2012 source ↗
Cheryl Strayed Author of Wild and Tiny Beautiful Things
By the time I was 19, I was saying, “I’m going to be a writer. This is my path.”
Recorded Tina Essmaker, The Great Discontent, 10 July 2012 source ↗
Ursula K. Le Guin Novelist, poet and essayist
But when people say, Did you always want to be a writer?, I have to say no! I always was a writer. I didn’t want to be a writer and lead the writer’s life and be glamorous and go to New York. I just wanted to do my job writing, and to do it really well.
Recorded John Wray, The Paris Review, 2013 source ↗
Alexa Chung English television presenter
To be blonde. It was just my ambition in life. Just to be blonde.
Recorded Laura Brown, harper by Harper's BAZAAR, Harper's Bazaar, 9 February 2015 source ↗
Alessia Cara Canadian singer-songwriter
The only concert I’ve ever really been to was (to see) a prepubescent Justin Bieber many years ago. I remember looking into the crowd. It felt like every girl wanted to be on stage because they wanted to just touch Justin Bieber…. All the girls wanted to be with him, I feel, but I just wanted to be him in that moment.
Recorded David Friend, The Canadian Press, Winnipeg Free Press, 1 April 2016 source ↗
Emeli Sandé British singer
I always wanted to be a singer, but I also wanted to be a doctor. I almost got there: I did four years and got my neuroscience BSc.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 14 January 2017 source ↗
Geoffrey Rush Australian actor
I dreamt of being an astronomer, I had a series of How and Why Books on the planets and the stars.
Recorded Patricia Edmonds, National Geographic, 3 February 2017 source ↗
Martin Sheen American actor
Golfer, priest, police officer, teacher and, after going to the movies, actor.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 18 March 2017 source ↗

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