Before I realised my parents, sister and I were all mortal.
When were you happiest?
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When Peta picked me to be on their first Times Square anti-fur billboard.
I am relieved to say that I find it hard to answer such a question, because if I could it would suggest that my life has become dreary and empty.
The birth of my first child, July 4 2002.
Now. When I see my two children enjoying each other's company.
About half an hour ago, watching through the window as my dad and two-year-old daughter walked to the paper shop together.
The two times I've been pregnant. With Jessie, I lay on a sofa and watched The West Wing for nine months.
An eight-hour walk along the north Cornwall coast with my eldest children - aged eight and 10. Whoever has eight hours of solid conversation with their children? I loved every minute.
About 15 minutes ago: I'm on medication and it's starting to wear off.
Can't quantify – I am often happy.
A couple of summers ago, walking through a forest illuminated by fireflies, with my man and our dogs.
I would like to say right now, but probably childhood – though even that may be wrong, so I'll say six weeks ago walking in the Lakes.
Most recently, when I was tobogganing in Italy.
When my bowels move freely and without complications.
Now. Although I am on tour and I will be deliriously happy when that finishes, because I'll be back home.
I am probably happiest now, but I have been happy at every stage of my life.
I've often reached the dizzying heights of ecstasy holding a pint of frothy seasonal ale in Fagan's pub, chatting away with Tom the landlord.
Any of the many times I have sat on my lawn with my wife, watching the boys play on a summer evening.
Right now. It's a beautiful thing to find yourself "the wrong side of 40" and more in love with life than ever. I never tell people this publicly as they wrongly assume the only valid creative state is that of the cliche of the tubercular, tortured artist coughing up blood in his garret.
Filming Much Ado About Nothing. In my home, with my family and my besties and the bard all around. Pure joy.
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