I am a happy person. I am happy every day. But if I had to pick a time it would be the first time I fell in love.
When were you happiest?
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Right now, in the present. I have a short memory.
Since my daughter Minty was born.
When I am doing things that I feel I am not obliged to do.
Professionally, it has to be when I got my third star.
At the birth of each of my children.
In my 40s: I had two children young enough to think their parents wonderful, my business was booming, I was happily married and living in the Cotswolds with a veg garden and ponies in the paddock. Who could not be happy?
March 1981 – preparing to open The Seafood Restaurant, Padstow, for a new season.
In Cyprus between 1994 and 1999. I was baking out there, the weather was fantastic, it was a great place to be and I met my wife Alex.
At the opening of The Conran Shop in Michelin House: it took a long time to achieve.
My children’s births, and when I won the Bake Off.
With my family in Wales.
When my son, Jimmy, was two and I was just pottering about with him.
Camping with my parents in the south of France. We went every year with the beautiful bell tent they made on a sewing machine. We even had a lavatory tent which was fabulous except, one day, it blew away with my father in it.
Weirdly enough, in Portugal during confinement.
I am always very happy in Sardinia with my family; I spend at least six months of the year there. Six months working and six months relaxing – I think that is a great balance.
The summer of 1997. My husband, who is an American, gave up everything to come and live with me in Edinburgh when we were students, and we were so skint but we had so much fun.
At each of my sons’ weddings.
Cycling around Martha’s Vineyard alone in the summer of 1976.
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