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Who most deserves an apology from you, and why?

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John Simpson English journalist
I’d like to say sorry to my mother. I had to choose between my parents, and I chose my father because he didn’t have any other kids. (My mother was a war widow and had two children from her first marriage.) I thought, in a childish way, that one had to be fair. It was very difficult for my mother and me, and we never really got over it.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 3 December 2016 source ↗
Gloria Steinem Writer and feminist organiser
I behaved badly with two old lovers. Years later, when I took one to lunch to apologise, it made it worse.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 4 March 2017 source ↗
John Prescott Deputy Prime Minister of the United Kingdom from 1997 to 2007
My mother, because I didn’t appreciate how proud she was of me being deputy prime minister. She ended up doing more press than me, and I was too sensitive and reacted.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 April 2018 source ↗
Kellie Maloney Retired boxing manager, promoter and politician
To my daughters and my partner, Tracey, for what I put them through with my transition.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 17 August 2024 source ↗

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