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Who do you turn to when you need advice?

Originally asked

Vogue, to one guest at a time, on camera, 73 Questions

Vogue's 73 Questions has repeatedly used this direct advice-network prompt.

You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.

Cheryl Strayed

Author of Wild and Tiny Beautiful Things

I also think that most of us get wisdom from a wide range of sources, from the people we know and love, from strangers on the street, from therapists and counselors, from teachers, from…

Recorded · The Blog of Author Tim Ferriss · 2018

Peyton Manning

American football quarterback

I prayed a lot about it. I sought a lot of advice from my dad.

Recorded · Academy of Achievement · 2007

Hiroshi Mikitani

Founder, chairman and chief executive of Rakuten

Many times when I found myself at a personal crossroads – when I graduated from Hitotsubashi University and was unsure about whether I wanted to go into research or become a businessman,…

Recorded · Rakuten Today · 2016

Gab Bois

Artist

Still, I do have people I turn to before that point… I’ll send my ideas or images to a friends group chat or I ask my boyfriend, you know?

Recorded · The Talks · 2022

Kiran Mazumdar-Shaw

Founder and executive chairperson of Biocon

I consider Mr. Narayanan Vaghul my mentor, because he gave me a huge amount of support and confidence, and understood my business model.

Recorded · People Matters · 2011

Aaron Ciechanover

Biologist and physician; Nobel laureate in chemistry for the discovery of ubiquitin-mediated protein degradation

I abandoned surgery, I abandoned medicine. The only person I consulted was my wife when I said ‘Listen, next month, we’re not going to have a salary.

Recorded · Nanyang Technological University Institute of Advanced Studies · 2025

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What has been your biggest disappointment?

Originally asked

The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A

This exact question recurs in The Guardian's institutional Q&A pool.

You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.

Richard Branson

English business magnate

Northern Rock, and not winning the bid to take on the lottery.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2010

Nicola Adams

British boxer

Losing in the 2012 world championships final.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2012

Walton Goggins
Being absent from my son’s life when I’m at work.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2025

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What is the worst job you have done?

Originally asked

The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A

The Guardian's long-running Q&A repeatedly asks this standing question, with minor tense variation.

You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.

Andrea Riseborough

British actress

Either shredding duck in a Chinese restaurant, or Oblivion.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2016

Emma Bunton

British singer

When I was younger, I appeared in the Halifax adverts that featured a cake or a bridge made of hundreds of people. You stood there for three days and were not even really seen.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2021

Esther Rantzen
When I started as a researcher in the BBC, I was working for an editor who was a self-confessed misogynist.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2024

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What is your favourite side project?

Originally asked

Lifehacker, to people about their working day, How I Work

Lifehacker repeatedly used this exact prompt in its named How I Work questionnaire.

You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.

Richard Feynman

Theoretical physicist; Nobel laureate in Physics, 1965

I had nothing to do, so I start to figure out the motion of the rotating plate.

Recorded · Engineering and Science / Caltech Magazine · 1985

Richard Ford

Novelist and short-story writer

Beyond that, editing an anthology gives me a chance to find a few new readers for my colleagues’ excellent work.

Recorded · Fiction Writers Review · 2011

Ada Yonath

Structural biologist; Nobel laureate in Chemistry, 2009

I like reading, I like swimming.I go snorkeling if I can. But not because I’m stuck, but because I enjoy them. And when I am swimming or whatever, I find I have more time to think.

Recorded · Lindau Nobel Laureate Meetings

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