Arts and letters

People on the record here who work in arts and letters, and what they were asked.

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What is the most rewarding part of being a parent?

Originally asked

Vogue, to one guest at a time, on camera, 73 Questions

Vogue asked close variants of Jennifer Lopez, Alicia Keys, and Nicki Minaj between 2020 and 2023; the same prompt recurs independently in parenting interviews.

You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.

Vince Gill

Musician, singer and songwriter

Boy, being a parent is a hard job, I think, because in parenting you want your kids to like you. Too much sometimes.

Recorded · Academy of Achievement · 2004

Ethan Hawke

Actor, director and novelist

I love being a father. I think there’s a great lie that we tell kids that pleasure creates happiness.

Recorded · The Talks · 2012

David Oyelowo

Actor, director and producer

Being a father teaches you very quickly that you are not the center of your own universe. That’s one of the gifts of having to wipe poop!

Recorded · The Talks · 2015

Who do you turn to when you need advice?

Originally asked

Vogue, to one guest at a time, on camera, 73 Questions

Vogue's 73 Questions has repeatedly used this direct advice-network prompt.

You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.

Kiri Te Kanawa

Opera singer

Totally. I’d say parents, brothers, sisters, and don’t go far beyond that for the moment.

Recorded · Academy of Achievement · 2008

Joachim Trier

Film director

Every time I call my wife or my friends or my mother or whoever and I say, “I fucked it up this time,” and then at the end of it, I feel okay. I resolved what I can do with this.

Recorded · The Talks · 2026

Gab Bois

Artist

Still, I do have people I turn to before that point… I’ll send my ideas or images to a friends group chat or I ask my boyfriend, you know?

Recorded · The Talks · 2022

Song Yi Jeon

Vocalist

It’s been amazing to be able to spend so much time with her. I’ve joined a couple of tours last year and I’m going to visit her in Denver soon.

Recorded · The Talks · 2024

Maya Angelou

Poet, memoirist and civil rights activist

Try to retain some of the finest parts of the African American culture, some of the sweetest parts.

Recorded · Academy of Achievement · 2000

What has been your biggest disappointment?

Originally asked

The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A

This exact question recurs in The Guardian's institutional Q&A pool.

You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.

Tony Ross

British writer of children's books

Being continually overlooked in awards ceremonies and honours lists.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2013

Andrew Ridgeley
My local Tesco stopping stocking Häagen-Dazs Peanut Butter Crunch.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2024

Ashley Jensen

Scottish actress and narrator

Hollywood Boulevard, it’s grubby, sticky and somehow terribly sad.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2017

Stephen Merchant

English comedian and actor

Failing to get anything in the New Year honours, not even a poxy CBE.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2013

Matthew Modine

American actor

My biggest disappointment would be living with disappointment. What a burden to be shackled to.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2023

Hilary Swank

Actor

When things are disappointing, I know they are happening for a reason, so I try to find out why and learn from them.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2011

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