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How do you balance creative work with other responsibilities?

Originally asked

The Creative Independent, to working artists, its interview series

The Creative Independent repeatedly asks working artists how they divide time between creative practice and administrative, family, or second-job obligations.

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Jia Tolentino

Writer

I needed to physically be totally alone and be in a different place to get going.

Recorded · The Creative Independent · 2022

Derek Sivers

Founder of CD Baby; author of Anything You Want

I am mostly full time dad and my time is mostly at the mercy of an awesome little boy. I write when I can.

Recorded · Roam Book Club · 2021

Cheryl Strayed

Author of Wild and Tiny Beautiful Things

There are many times for three months in a row I wrote every day, but there are also many times for three months in a row I didn't write a word.

Recorded · Marie Forleo

Adrian Scarborough

British actor

All the damn time, it comes with the territory. My family valiantly put up with most of them. Though the older I get, the bolder I am about saying no.

Recorded · Official London Theatre · 2012

Ja’Tovia Gary

visual artist and filmmaker

This process has also involved slowing down and refusing a certain amount of labor that has been imposed upon me as a Black woman in this country.

Recorded · Filmmaker Magazine · 2021

Alan Shepard

Naval aviator and astronaut; the first American in space and the fifth person to walk on the Moon

My wife and I have always tried to explain to the girls — even when I had to go off on nine-month cruises in the Mediterranean or in the Pacific — why I was doing it, and what it was all…

Recorded · Academy of Achievement · 1991

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What keeps you awake at night?

Originally asked

The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A

A long-running fixed question in The Guardian's weekly Q&A questionnaire.

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Björn Ulvaeus

Swedish musician

Nothing, really. But without little sleeping pills, I’d go crazy.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2020

Edward Fox

British actor

If you have a nice drink before going to bed, you don’t stay awake at night. I like almost anything in a bottle.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2017

Busta Rhymes

American rapper

Creating. When everyone goes to bed and then you have six or seven hours to create peacefully. I’ve become nocturnal.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2020

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What scares you about getting older?

Originally asked

The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A

A newer fixed question in The Guardian's rotating Q&A pool.

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Aaron Ciechanover

Biologist and physician; Nobel laureate in chemistry for the discovery of ubiquitin-mediated protein degradation

You have to die of something. Let’s say we would be able to cure cancer, or Alzheimer, or cardiovascular diseases. And then what? Should we be young forever or healthy forever?

Recorded · Lindau Nobel Laureate Meetings · 2014

Tom Burke
Having regrets and not knowing what to do about them.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2026

Jon Sopel
Every time I play tennis I come back with a fresh injury.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2024

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What have you come to understand about what it means to be human?

Originally asked

Krista Tippett, to her guests, On Being

Krista Tippett uses this as a recurring, sometimes-closing On Being question; the wording is intentionally adapted to each guest.

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Paul Kalanithi

Neurosurgeon and writer

Everyone succumbs to finitude. I suspect I am not the only one who reaches this pluperfect state. Most ambitions are either achieved or abandoned; either way, they belong to the past.

Recorded · Stanford Medicine · 2015

A.J. Jacobs

Journalist and author of The Year of Living Biblically

I think part of the meaning of life is actually the search for the meaning of life. That may sound glib, but I truly believe it.

Recorded · Five Books · 2022

Kate Bowler

Historian of American Christianity; professor at Duke Divinity School

The movement has perfected a rarefied form of America’s addiction to self-rule, which denies much of our humanity: our fragile bodies, our finitude, our need to stare down our deaths (at…

Recorded · The New York Times · 2016

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