What is the worst thing anyone has said to you?

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In a rehearsal just after graduating from drama college, I say my lines to an older actor. He pauses, turns to the director and says: “I’m sorry, but is she going to do it like that?”

The Q&A, The Guardian, 3 May 2025 source ↗

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A friend and I were talking about eating disorders and he said: “Well, we never have to worry about you not eating.”
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 10 February 2024 source ↗
This was said about me in a Radio 1 focus group: “I don’t pay my licence fee to hear scummy northerners.”
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 23 August 2025 source ↗

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