“Your lyrics are rubbish.” It was someone I was working with when I was in my early 20s. It turned out well because I then spent a long time studying and learning how to write good lyrics.
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You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
“Oh, he’s all about money.” I’ve never charged anyone in all the years I’ve been doing one-to-one work. That’s my gift to the world.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 7 January 2023 source ↗
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One time an engineer said, “I always forget your frequency is at the same level as a crying baby.” I think he was on to something, because I have been told to shush many times over the years.
They tend to say it behind my back.
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The most intensive and beautiful golden sunlight. It’s the strongest force in the universe.
Pleasure is a glass of champagne, happiness is when you are living your values. I get up each morning and I’m excited by the day, and I have good health. This is the happiest that I’ve ever been.
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People mistaking my kindness for weakness and stealing from me.
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