What is the worst thing anyone has said to you?

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Recorded Richard Schiff said elsewhere, not written here
Hasn’t happened yet, it’s coming.

The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 April 2026 source ↗

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Belinda Carlisle American singer
“You sing like a goat.” When I did my French album [Voila], this French woman – a supposed friend – said to my face: “It’s fantastic but, how come you sound like a chèvre?” It was like someone had hit me in the stomach.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 4 March 2023 source ↗
I get a lot of abuse online because of my opposition to the assault on Gaza. The abuse is horrific, but I’ve learned to ignore it. The integrity of how you live your life is more important than what strangers think.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 2 May 2026 source ↗
I stopped drinking 18 or 19 years ago, and in an argument someone who will remain nameless said: “Oh just go and have a drink.” It was nasty.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 2 September 2023 source ↗
As a young actor, again at the Citizens theatre, I was making an exit and a theatregoer leaned over the balcony and said, “You’re terrible!”
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 26 July 2025 source ↗

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