What is the most important lesson life has taught you?

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The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A

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Recorded Maggie O'Farrell said elsewhere, not written here
To keep going and never give up, and to enjoy it to the absolute full because, at any moment, the curtain can fall.

The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 25 March 2023 source ↗

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Mohamed ElBaradei Director General of the International Atomic Energy Agency, 1997-2009; Nobel Peace Prize 2005
I think that is the most important lesson you learn in life, that you have to be ready to make a compromise. You do not compromise your principles, but you have to be ready to compromise. You have to understand that you cannot get your way 100 percent. Life is too complicated. You are not an island, and you work in a social setting, and you need to understand that you work always — at the family level, at the society level — to work out the compromise that is perceived to be fair. You don’t get 100 percent of what you want, but at least you will get the basic minimum that you require.
Recorded Academy of Achievement interview, 2006 source ↗
Roger Ebert Film critic
I believe that if, at the end, according to our abilities, we have done something to make others a little happier, and something to make ourselves a little happier, that is about the best we can do. To make others less happy is a crime. To make ourselves unhappy is where all crime starts. We must try to contribute joy to the world. That is true no matter what our problems, our health, our circumstances. We must try. I didn’t always know this and am happy I lived long enough to find it out.
Recorded Salon, excerpted from Life Itself: A Memoir, 15 September 2011 source ↗
That there is time. I doggedly prioritise and pursue tasks, and the day seems to open out and everything does get done. Chill.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 30 August 2025 source ↗
Bruno Tonioli Italian choreographer
Follow your dream and never give up, because it’s not over until the fat lady sings. Ride the adventure!
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 15 April 2023 source ↗

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