Harlan Coben
American author
I don’t even voice them. Perhaps the books are my outlet here.
What is your greatest fear?
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Which trait do you most dislike in yourself?
Identity & self
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Which living person do you most admire, and why?
Values & belief
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What are bad recommendations you hear in your profession or area of expertise?
Craft & work
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In the last five years, what have you become better at saying no to?
Daily life
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How would you like to die?
Death & what remains
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What is your idea of perfect happiness?
Identity & self
Originally asked
Vanity Fair, to its interview subject, The Proust Questionnaire
The exact prompt is fixed in Vanity Fair's Proust Questionnaire and independently sustained in The Guardian's The Q&A over multiple decades.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Violent death. Death generally.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, November 2016 source ↗
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Rita Moreno
Actor, singer and dancer
The thought that I might die with unresolved conflicts.
I fear the arrogance we are all at risk of, the pride that pushes us to put “I” in place of “God”. More prosaically, I fear physical pain because it risks stripping us of our dignity.
Immunity to cruelty.
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I feel almost certain I don't know them. It would be one of these types who dedicate their lives to the welfare of others, whereas the people I tend to know are people making stories out of the dramas of themselves.
Don’t romanticise your “vocation”. You can either write good sentences or you can’t. There is no “writer’s lifestyle”. All that matters is what you leave on the page.
Protect the time and space in which you write. Keep everybody away from it, even the people who are most important to you.
Oblivious to the event or on the brink of a genuine religious conversion.
Reading quietly, in high grass, among loved ones (who are also quietly reading). Followed by a boozy lunch.
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