I become very anxious if I think I’ve hurt someone.
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Which trait do you most dislike in yourself?
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Originally asked
Vanity Fair, to its interview subject, The Proust Questionnaire
The exact prompt is fixed in Vanity Fair's Proust Questionnaire and independently sustained in The Guardian's The Q&A over multiple decades.
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Dying alone and in pain.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, May 2024 source ↗
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Sally Mann
Photographer
The loss of a child.
Ina Garten
Cookery writer and shop owner
Pain. I told Jeffrey that if I have a really bad headache just pull the plug.
Losing one of my children, as there is no greater loss.
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Cruelty and not treating others as equals.
A beautiful meal and a glass of wine with my favorite people and lots of laughter ringing around the table.
My first payday as a professional actor, knowing this was the beginning of the rest of my life, and the day my daughter told me I wasn’t the worst dad in the world.
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