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What is the harshest thing anyone has said to you?

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The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A

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Robert Carlyle Scottish actor
On Angela's Ashes, Alan Parker said to me, 'You've got the Bafta, just get in the door.' I was walking along the street to go into a shop and he saw me milking it a bit. It was a really good piece of advice.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 23 February 2008 source ↗
Chiwetel Ejiofor English actor
“You’ll never do well as an actor unless you change your name.” I’m not going to say who.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 19 October 2024 source ↗
“Let’s face it, you’re not Ingrid Bergman.” I was 19 and he was a potential boyfriend. My only thought at the time was: “I’m not?”
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 8 August 2026 source ↗

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