One’s created sense of self is not who you are. The present moment is all we have.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 15 February 2025 source ↗
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One’s created sense of self is not who you are. The present moment is all we have.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 15 February 2025 source ↗
To find as many moments to laugh as possible.
Yes. I'm not unhappy about becoming old. I'm not unhappy about what must be. It makes me cry only when I see my friends go before me and life is emptied. I don't believe in an afterlife, but I still fully expect to see my brother again. ... But, you know, there's something I'm finding out as I'm aging that I am in love with the world. And I look right now, as we speak together, out my window in my studio and I see my trees and my beautiful, beautiful maples that are hundreds of years old, they're beautiful. And you see I can see how beautiful they are. I can take time to see how beautiful they are. It is a blessing to get old. It is a blessing to find the time to do the things, to read the books, to listen to the music.
To fail better next time.
It is that you know that you are standing out in this crowd because you are being carried on the shoulders of others. You know, you may have the capacity to articulate their aspirations. That is maybe something special you might have. But what is a leader without followers? I mean you would have all of these interviews and people will not — would not necessarily want to follow. No, I am a great believer in the fact that everything is corporate. Everything is corporate and you — as a leader you are one who can coax the best out of others.
When people are rude to their waiter.
Whenever I walk past an ice-cream shop, I just can’t not buy an ice-cream.
I’d give my younger self the lessons I’ve learned over the years, sparing myself the need to figure everything out so publicly.
We go back from whence we came.
Watching the news. Human life seemed pretty cheap in 2024.
I’ve learned that true love shouldn’t be complicated. It’s the safety and freedom to be seen and celebrated for who you truly are.
Barack Obama, Chris Bonington, Jack Dee, Maya Jama, Adam Lambert, PP Arnold
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