A sports car. I was in my 20s; I’d fallen out with my boyfriend, so to cheer myself up I got myself a little silver and black Mazda and a matching jumper and jacket. And do you know what, it worked. I saw him do a double take.

A trip that was, like, $100k. It was a lot of money and I didn’t even go on it. It was to St Barts. I paid for me and my friends and a lot of stuff fell apart, and then it ended up with one of my friends just going with his girlfriend.

An Andy Warhol Polaroid of Debbie Harry.

An electric-yellow mohair rug.

Before transitioning, I had a severe eating disorder. The doctor said, “Your body’s shutting down and if you don’t improve your mental and physical wellbeing, you’ll die.” Shortly after that, I started transitioning medically and my eating disorder resolved.

Cancel culture: getting stuck on the discourse rather than looking at the system.

At university, I worked at a hotel in housekeeping. We saw so many weird things in people’s rooms. Guests would leave sex and party stuff behind!

Victoria Rose, a British surgeon operating on children in Gaza.

Everybody I’ve lost to suicide. When someone dies in that tragic way, you always feel you could have done more.

Apart from stuff on social media, an ex-partner telling me I’m unlovable.