Everybody I’ve lost to suicide. When someone dies in that tragic way, you always feel you could have done more.
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Everybody I’ve lost to suicide. When someone dies in that tragic way, you always feel you could have done more.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 5 July 2025 source ↗
To strangers. Living in New York, I see individuals every day who are invisible to so many. I want to say sorry that so many of us think their pain and suffering is not our own.
Nelson Mandela, because I didn’t do enough to stop apartheid. Now I have hopefully made amends.
To John, a really close friend who died last year. I'd love to see him one more time and say, 'Look, I'm sorry I wasn't around enough during your life.'
My kids, for not being around much.
Passionate, loving, driven.
Victoria Rose, a British surgeon operating on children in Gaza.
At university, I worked at a hotel in housekeeping. We saw so many weird things in people’s rooms. Guests would leave sex and party stuff behind!
Cancel culture: getting stuck on the discourse rather than looking at the system.
Apart from stuff on social media, an ex-partner telling me I’m unlovable.
The Great Gatsby.
Stanley Tucci, Marcus Brigstocke, Justin Hawkins, Gabby Logan, Guz Khan, Anita Rani
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