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Which thinking habit do you wish you could break?

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Vox, to writers and thinkers, 9 Questions, 2017

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Sarah Perry
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I’ve a deplorable tendency to become entrenched in my own prejudices: If I dislike an artist, an art form, or an idea (jazz, ballet, certain kinds of fiction) it is extremely difficult to get me to change my mind, and all evidence presented to the contrary will be discarded and very likely mocked. Of course, nobody suffers but me.

Sean Illing, Vox, “9 questions” series, 26 August 2017 source ↗

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Eddie Glaude Jr. Professor of African American Studies at Princeton University
Impatience. My mind moves rapidly.
Recorded Sean Illing, Vox, “9 questions” series, 8 July 2017 source ↗
Courtney Maum Novelist and essayist
I’m too quick to jump to a negative conclusion. For example, if I’ve had a book come out recently and I’m with a friend who doesn’t mention it, instead of thinking, “This person hasn’t mentioned my book because they’re busy and haven’t had time to purchase it, much less read it, and that doesn’t mean that they don’t like me,” I will go to, “This person doesn’t care about me,” which is such a terrible, self-centered way to think. People really are busy and their world doesn’t stop just because I’ve published a novel.
Recorded Sean Illing, Vox, “9 questions” series, 15 July 2017 source ↗
Tim Harford Economics columnist at the Financial Times
I probably want to be liked too much. This is one difference between me and Steve Levitt . Steve Levitt is also much smarter than me and much more successful than me. And that doesn’t bother me at all, but he said he also doesn’t care what anyone thinks about him, or doesn’t seem to care what anyone thinks about him. I actually do care what people think about me. I’d quite like people to think I’m a nice guy, so I’m probably self-censoring at times. Say, maybe I won’t say that because people wouldn’t like that. And that’s probably a fault in a newspaper columnist — you probably shouldn’t care what people think about you, but that’s the way it is.
Recorded Tyler Cowen, Conversations with Tyler podcast, published transcript source ↗
Henry Rollins Musician, writer and broadcaster
Rushing to judgment. Looking for the bad in someone else before anything else.
Recorded Sean Illing, Vox, "9 questions" series, 8 April 2017 source ↗

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Question Whose work do you read even when you disagree with them? Attention & the world
I often hate-read the Daily Mail. It’s the worst of media and the worst of mankind distilled into one publication and in some ways it feels a moral duty to be familiar with it. Too often we all bolt ourselves into an echo chamber, which I think lacks courage, and can lead to a kind of intellectual conceitedness.
Recorded Sean Illing, Vox, “9 questions” series, 26 August 2017 source ↗

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