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What disappointment has stayed with you longest?

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Matthew Modine

American actor

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My biggest disappointment would be living with disappointment. What a burden to be shackled to. I would be truly disappointed if I didn’t (as the song says) pick myself up, dust myself off, and start all over again.

The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 21 January 2023 source ↗

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Vince Cable British politician
The failure of my party to make the big political breakthrough it deserves.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 25 April 2009 source ↗
At university in the 60s, I thought social justice was going to improve exponentially. How wrong I was.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 February 2026 source ↗
Melissa McCarthy American actress
That in 2019 we’re still dealing with people hating people or people wanting to keep women down. That we haven’t evolved past that is a huge disappointment.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 26 January 2019 source ↗

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