Three times when I lived in New York, I missed seeing David Bowie in real life by moments.
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Three times when I lived in New York, I missed seeing David Bowie in real life by moments.
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That Barack Obama seems to be more concerned with becoming re-elected than with doing his very best to fulfil the promise of his candidacy.
The realisation that I am no longer young.
Not joining the circus.
That in 2019 we’re still dealing with people hating people or people wanting to keep women down. That we haven’t evolved past that is a huge disappointment.
I’m at my happiest in the ocean, and even better if my husband is there throwing me around.
In the Pet Shop Boys song Being Boring they’ve a great line that says “I never dreamed that I would get to be the creature that I always meant to be”. And I feel I am, so that’s great.
Losing my husband. We are properly codependent.
I think we become stars.
Curious, confident, cheerful.
Like a very full heart and a flip in my stomach when I see him.
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