Three times when I lived in New York, I missed seeing David Bowie in real life by moments.
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Three times when I lived in New York, I missed seeing David Bowie in real life by moments.
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Failing my driving test first time; that was a disappointment on a geological scale.
That most men have not yet come to understand the impact and the devastating consequences of violence against women.
It has been in myself, for allowing individuals who I relied on to make important decisions in my life that left me alone to pick up the pieces.
Not getting solo records playlisted on the BBC.
Fewer night shifts.
One time an engineer said, “I always forget your frequency is at the same level as a crying baby.” I think he was on to something, because I have been told to shush many times over the years.
Losing my husband. We are properly codependent.
I think we become stars.
Like a very full heart and a flip in my stomach when I see him.
I lived in New York during 9/11 and worked a couple of blocks away from the twin towers. I was looking when the first tower exploded and then when the second plane flew in and, before we had to evacuate, I did see people jump to their death.
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