The world doesn’t reward talent, it mostly rewards those who are connected.
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You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
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Not doing Top Of The Pops when The Young Ones’ single went to number one.
That I couldn’t bridge the gap with my parents before they died. My mother died 10 years ago of Alzheimer’s, and my father died two years ago. He left when I was 11 and we got back in touch when I was 22.
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An inability to see the other side.
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Sorry is such an underrated word – I use it liberally.
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Last week, when I decided to rewrite the children’s book I’ve been working on.
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