What advice would you give your twenty-year-old self, and what should they ignore?
Recorded Alain de Botton said elsewhere, not written here
Be ambitious beyond merely dreaming of the first book being published. Already now try to imagine where you want this to go, where you want to be at 60.

John Purcell, Ten Terrifying Questions, The Booktopian, 6 February 2012 source ↗

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Siya Kolisi South Africa international rugby union flanker and captain
I think I wouldn't have made it if I didn't go through those struggles but that still doesn't make it right for kids to have to go through the past that I went through.
Recorded Red Bull, 8 November 2019 source ↗
Wayne Rooney English former footballer and manager; record goalscorer for Manchester United and England
If you've been picked for your country you've been picked for a reason: because you're good enough. So go there, be yourself, keep doing what you've been doing for your club, and enjoy it.
Recorded The Boot Room, The FA, 11 June 2021 source ↗
Indra Nooyi Chief executive of PepsiCo, 2006–2018
Never give up your passion for learning. And zoom out of your field before you zoom in. Some of my very best business insights have come from reading around subjects. They have come from approaching questions at a strange angle, from thinking about them from a different point of view. A lot of the knowledge that has really given me an edge in business has come from history, psychology, even chemistry. Connecting seemingly unconnected dots is what has served me well.
Recorded Wake Forest University commencement, 2011 source ↗
Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie Novelist and essayist
All over the world, girls are raised to be make themselves likeable, to twist themselves into shapes that suit other people. Please do not twist yourself into shapes to please. Don’t do it. If someone likes that version of you, that version of you that is false and holds back, then they actually just like that twisted shape, and not you.
Recorded Wellesley College 137th Commencement, 29 May 2015 source ↗

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