They can take the piss out of me and it still feels like wisdom and loyalty.
The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 8 January 2019 source ↗
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Which quality in your friends matters most to you?Originally asked
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View all 65 →Compassion. Wisdom. Wit. The delicate balance of knowing when I need tough love and when I need support. Plus, call me crazy, but I’m also partial to friends who don’t surreptitiously record our calls.
Sally Field
Actor
That they won’t let me hide.
Honesty, trustworthiness, and a deep understanding of emotions.
A willingness to come uptown.
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Showing off onstage, with everyone laughing and applauding.
A little more self-confidence wouldn’t hurt.
Playing around in my studio by myself, discovering the possibility of new ideas.
A world destroyed by science-denying mediocrity.
Sir David Attenborough, John Prendergast.
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