Very hard, meaningful kisses.
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Safety, and being able to be completely yourself.
Pulling yourself out of a wild ocean and on to a life raft.
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View profile →When I was losing my sight, I couldn’t see where I was going, and I went into an undertaker’s thinking it was a barber’s. I asked the undertaker whether he had many waiting.
Hard-working, resilient, irritating.
My college years when I was 17 to 19, before the responsibilities of adulthood, just doing the things that I was good at and liked – computers, maths, further maths (I was a geek).
To Kill a Mockingbird – I was meant to read it for an exam and I didn’t and I cheated. I was allowed to use a laptop to type my answers because I couldn’t see my writing, so I hid an electronic copy of the book on the laptop.
Strictly. I went into it thinking I would last two weeks!
I’m judgmental.
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