you have no idea where your power, if you have any power, comes from and then, when it vanishes, you have no idea why it’s vanished.
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Krista Tippett, to her guests, On Being
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You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Bonnie Lyons, Interview, The Paris Review, 1996 source ↗
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