The truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.
The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 5 July 2016 source ↗
The question
Which quality in your friends matters most to you?Originally asked
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Others on this question
View all 65 →That they don’t die on me.
Their willingness to have me as a friend.
Julie Taymor
Theatre and film director
Love of fun and food and great conversation.
John Malkovich
Actor
That they’re kind, trustworthy, smart, and can hear and communicate and aren’t afraid to do so.
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I’d like to die anytime after the age of 90—in my sleep!
Oprah Winfrey. She always does the right thing—even when no one is looking.
Close friends, spectacular food, gorgeous weather, and interesting conversation!
I’m disorganized.
It’s a toss-up between mean and petty.
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