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What disappointment has stayed with you longest?

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Suzanne Vega

American singer-songwriter

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How little money really changes things. It buys doctors but not health, clothes but not taste, makeup but not beauty. When I was young and didn’t have anything, I imagined money had more power.

The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 9 September 2017 source ↗

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Serena Williams United States professional tennis player, 1995–2022
Any lost match is, of course, disappointing, but every loss is a lesson to be learned.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 30 January 2021 source ↗
Not getting into drama school when I was 17. In those days, the first thing people said was, “Where did you train?”
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 27 April 2024 source ↗
Yusuf Islam British musician
Not making number one with Matthew And Son because of the Monkees.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 15 November 2014 source ↗
I am consistently disappointed in the music industry. Every time someone says that I’m underrated, that feels extremely disappointing because I’ve done my end of the bargain.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 29 November 2025 source ↗

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Question What do you do when you feel creatively stuck? Craft & work
There are a few. As far as getting started, lots of people who really want to make a song have figured that out already. I very rarely get asked for advice from people who have never written a song and want to know how to get started. It’s usually about getting stuck or feeling like they’ve painted themselves into a corner. I remember getting asked a question from this one kid who was probably 13 years old. He wanted to know if it was okay to always write in A minor. He liked writing classical piano pieces and his favorite key was A minor. My favorite key is also A minor, so he wanted to know if that was okay.
Recorded T. Cole Rachel, The Creative Independent interview source ↗

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