Right now. I am a very blessed man.
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What period or moment in your life brought you the most joy?Originally asked
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When everyone else is happy.
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In the first lockdown. Obviously, there was terrible grief and sadness and fear around, but there was also this reclaiming for nature. I was constantly at my allotment with the big kids and my husband.
James McAvoy
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When I was 15 or 16 - I slept really well then. Now I sleep on a bed of anxiety-tipped nails.
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God has never let me down. He’s a key factor in guiding my decisions and feeling safe within them. My wife and I suffered three miscarriages, one of them quite late in the pregnancy. Without faith, we would have retreated into our own corners to lick our wounds, but our love increased.
Being a father teaches you very quickly that you are not the center of your own universe. That’s one of the gifts of having to wipe poop!
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