Wow! Like, the way people mess up language. I mean, it makes me crazy, y’know?
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, January 2022 source ↗
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What trait do you most dislike in other people?Originally asked
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View all 193 →Entitlement or a lack of manners. Though I find they often flock together.
Disrespect. My dad was a toolmaker and worked in a factory all his life, and he felt looked down on, and it really affected him. And so all my life I’ve loathed disrespect and valued respect.
Lack of empathy.
Elmore Leonard
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Guys who use the word “snot.”
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The thought that I might die with unresolved conflicts.
That they don’t give a tinker’s damn about my celebrity.
With a malicious grin that implies I know something you don’t.
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