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What is the harshest thing anyone has said to you?

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I get trolled on a daily basis so it probably involved my teeth, but that was until I learned to love my teeth.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 6 December 2025 source ↗
I’ve heard it all: too fat, too short, no talent. Those are the things that cut me deep when I was younger, but now they drive me.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 20 January 2024 source ↗
Sharon Corr Musical artist
I can’t disclose that because it’s not suitable for public airing, but it was truly awful; they’ve since said worse.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 24 June 2023 source ↗

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