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Which moment embarrassed you most?

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J.K. Rowling

Novelist and screenwriter

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I cannot possibly reveal the full horror of my most embarrassing moment, but it took place in a pub in Exeter (which is a town in the south coast of England, where I went to university) in 1984 and involved a joke made by me that backfired spectacularly. The whole debacle was witnessed by my friend Pauline, who is mentioned elsewhere on this fansite (I have to keep her happy in case she TELLS).

J.K. Rowling official website, 15 May 2004 source ↗

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