All the big ones – climate change, safety for our children, money.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 23 September 2023 source ↗
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All the big ones – climate change, safety for our children, money.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 23 September 2023 source ↗
I am a good sleeper.
The fear of nightmares.
Climate change. That is the single most important calamity in the making that I obsess over.
Listening to a song that my brother-in-law – the brother of Jason, my first husband – wrote, about how hard it was to live without his brother.
I wouldn’t change anything. When I was 29, my first husband died, so I learned a new way of thinking about life, which is: there are many things that you can’t control.
My mum, for the way that she brought up her three children and managed to make her money work. She worked as a cleaner for all these families we went to church with. She would cycle there with my little sister on the back of her bike – we didn’t have a car. She had an amazing mind for planning and organising so that we got to do ballet, we went to Brownies.
When my first husband died, because it felt like my life was over, and it was challenging to keep in life at the time.
I worked in a cafe, which I loved, but when it was quiet we had to scrape the fat out from between the tiles on the floor with a butter knife.
My mum looks after our kids all the time, but on the very few weeks she takes time off, doing it all is a big juggle. My mum is a combination of Mary Poppins and Angela Davis, so I’d clone her.
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