More than I can, sadly. I led the softest of lives in the softest of times, and my daughter will face sterner challenges.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 7 June 2025 source ↗
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What would you most want to leave your children?Originally asked
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More than I can, sadly. I led the softest of lives in the softest of times, and my daughter will face sterner challenges.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 7 June 2025 source ↗
So maybe I don’t try to figure it out. Maybe I just aim to get the couch right: strong bones, high-quality leather, something earthy and animal and real. A surface that knows something of what it was to be alive, that warms to our touch and cools in our absence. Also: an expansive bench that fits all of us. Something that will hold us through everything that lies ahead — the loving, collapsing and nuzzling. The dying, the grieving.
A spirit of generosity.
A strong work ethic and enough wealth not to need it.
Exactly what my parents left me: the knowledge of the difference between good and bad and right and wrong. Everything else is entirely up to them.
First loved, then laid, then paid.
A painting by Renoir, paid for by demanding a huge fee for a screenwriting deal with a producer I didn’t want to work for. The movie was never made.
The exact median middle-aged black woman in the US. If hard work guaranteed success, she’d be the most successful person on the planet. But she isn’t, yet she keeps on going.
I’m from Birmingham. I’m not afraid of things. Things are afraid of me.
Do the secret thing you know you were born to do.
“Try this, you’ll love it.”
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