This morning, reading a memorial card I wrote for my mother.
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On Monday in therapy.
I have wet eyes sometimes, but I cried all my tears in my youth.
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Not to be able to do the things that you take for granted, like running up the tube steps or going somewhere under your own steam.
I’m trying to write my will and I keep changing my mind.
Complaining about the weather, because there’s nothing you can do about it. There’s no such thing as bad weather, only inappropriate clothing.
Impatient, funny, worrier.
A driver or a helicopter.
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