A singer. I wanted to live off music ever since I was a child – a wish that came true when I was over 35 years old.
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An actress. My family thought it was ridiculous, it was like saying you wanted to be an astronaut.
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First loved, then laid, then paid.
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To my grandma Faye, because I didn’t realise, when I was growing up, what an icon she was. She fought at Cable Street, and worked her arse off to get the family out of the tenements. She had a lot of wisdom to impart.
A beautiful, sequined dress for a showbiz function. It was pushing £1,850.
Our family song – Three Is A Magic Number, which my husband played me on the way back from the maternity hospital.
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