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Who deserves an apology from you, and for what?

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Tracy-Ann Oberman

Actor and writer

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To my grandma Faye, because I didn’t realise, when I was growing up, what an icon she was. She fought at Cable Street, and worked her arse off to get the family out of the tenements. She had a lot of wisdom to impart.

The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 August 2021 source ↗

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I did say sorry to my mum, for being the way I was when I was a teenager. You become a parent and go, “Oh my God, this is what they were doing.”
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 31 January 2026 source ↗
Louis Theroux British and American journalist and author
To everyone who has been out with me and had to deal with my lack of emotional maturity.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 17 November 2018 source ↗
I’ve apologised to my son, Thomas, for being absent for quite a lot of his first few years, but, as a working mother and breadwinner, I kind of had to be. I like to think I’ve made up for it.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 16 March 2024 source ↗
When I was in my 20s, I had an uncle who took his own life. I would like a second chance to say: “Hang in there.” My parents were living abroad, and me and my sister were just too young to notice the flags.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 29 August 2026 source ↗

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