I am a living self-help book – I’ve managed to train myself to never regret anything.
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If you could revise one chapter of your past, what would you change?Originally asked
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Nothing: the good times, the bad times, they make your character.
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I would never have smoked - I gave up years ago.
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I would take away fear.
I wouldn’t because everything is connected with everything else.
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A beautiful, sequined dress for a showbiz function. It was pushing £1,850.
To my grandma Faye, because I didn’t realise, when I was growing up, what an icon she was. She fought at Cable Street, and worked her arse off to get the family out of the tenements. She had a lot of wisdom to impart.
Our family song – Three Is A Magic Number, which my husband played me on the way back from the maternity hospital.
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