To my daughters and my partner, Tracey, for what I put them through with my transition.
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View all 209 →Everyone I ever met in 2007, because I was definitely about two hours late.
My maternal grandmother, who lived with us for many years. I was a moody teenager and sometimes impatient and rude. Yet she was the person I feel I’m most like. I really miss her.
My brother: I never meant to kill your pet frog. I thought I was doing a good deed cleaning the mossy tank with bleach. Can I also say sorry to the frog?
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View profile →I am an ambassador for Rotary, and we are very close to eradicating polio. When I was younger, I lived in Mumbai and, as a kid from England, I was traumatised by seeing children on the street without limbs.
When I got a doctorate from my alma mater, Brunel. My mother always wanted me to become a doctor.
Everyone cutting out social media for one day a week.
Redeeming mortgages. I did it for a few weeks, and it sealed the deal that I wanted a career in entertainment.
I was rejected by EastEnders, having been called three times. I was heartbroken.
Mathew Varghese, an orthopaedic surgeon who runs India’s only polio ward in Delhi. He provides reconstructive surgery to help survivors walk.
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