I hope I’ll find my mother and father in heaven. Only my father would probably say, “You can’t come and live here, boy!”
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I hope I’ll find my mother and father in heaven. Only my father would probably say, “You can’t come and live here, boy!”
The Q&A, The Guardian, 20 June 2026 source ↗
Hopefully we have life in the minds and hearts of the people we interacted with.
I really hope there is a big pearly gate.
Oh, man. Well, I hope when we die, it’s the same as before we were born. No one’s really frightened of that enormous, infinite blackness before we were born. No one sits there thinking, “Oh, God, how awful. I was nothing.” So I don’t really see why we should be frightened of that after we die, as long as it is black. I really don’t want to be up there on a cloud playing a harp, meeting some of the people I’ve hated in my life. I can’t imagine a greater nightmare. That would be hell, in fact.
I think we go back into the earth.
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The boozing. I started on rum as a child.
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As a nice old man.
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