I don’t deplore anything about myself, but I am a perfectionist.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 8 April 2023 source ↗
The question
Which trait in yourself do you like least?Originally asked
The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A
The Guardian's The Q&A has retained this Proust-derived prompt from at least 2007 through 2026, and ABC independently put it to the Obamas in 2011.
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I don’t deplore anything about myself, but I am a perfectionist.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 8 April 2023 source ↗
My pathological incapacity to say no.
If I had a trait that I truly deplored, I would work to erase or modify it…Probably, a lack of discipline. (Though people think that I write quickly, & don’t revise, quite the reverse is true.) To myself, I work very slowly & painstakingly, & am often frustrated by accomplishing so little. My friend Margaret Atwood has said that in the late afternoon she is likely to be overcome by a feeling of desperation that she has accomplished so little that day, & this is a feeling I share, often. It seems that I waste most of my time gazing out the window here at my (overgrown) garden; & when I am in Berkeley, where I spend about one-third of the year, I am forever gazing out the window toward the San Francisco Bay & a continually changing, always-beautiful sky.
Procrastination.
That I give way too quickly.
As the Queen of Rock’n’Roll. As a woman who showed other women that it is OK to strive for success on their own terms.
I never want to go back; I fought so much through my life, that I have to keep going forward.
Like a dryer going off in your stomach.
Being at one with yourself.
Too many times I had people try and make decisions for me. The assumption that I needed that was a big mistake!
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