You reach a certain point in life and suddenly know a lot of dead people, and I’ve noticed you don’t stop getting to know people who are dead. Those relationships continue and I like that.
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You reach a certain point in life and suddenly know a lot of dead people, and I’ve noticed you don’t stop getting to know people who are dead. Those relationships continue and I like that.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 23 May 2026 source ↗
I don’t think we’re meant to know.
I think we’re definitely gone, but I do think people leave traces everywhere from what they did in life, and live on and continue to make an impact through the ripple effect of that.
I hope I’ll find my mother and father in heaven. Only my father would probably say, “You can’t come and live here, boy!”
We don’t die. We change realms. Life is eternal. Living is not. Live while you are alive.
A movie. Does it have a name? It might do.
Steady, reaching, bewildered.
To be stuck in the past.
Having regrets and not knowing what to do about them.
Putting chocolate mousse in my agent’s face. Somebody had done it to me – that thing where they go, “Smell this, it smells funny”, and then they put it in your nose. A year later I was in this French restaurant with a very 1980s-style dessert trolley and, before I knew it, I had a bowl of chocolate mousse in front of me. And my agent went, “What’s that smell?”, and it felt impossible not to … I immediately felt awful and tried to apologise. He, of course, said that he found it funny. But I knew he didn’t.
I’ve not always been great friend material. I’ve tried to get better at that, so to be remembered as reliable by a few would be great.
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