If you could edit your past, what would you change?

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There was a very large part of my 20s where I was an alcoholic, and an addict. When I lost my dad to cirrhosis, I knew that the only difference between us was that, tragically, he couldn’t stop whereas I could.

The Q&A, The Guardian, 13 June 2026 source ↗

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Gloria Steinem Writer and feminist organiser
Since hostile people still call me a former Playboy Bunny, even at 82, I probably shouldn’t have done that in my youth, even to write an exposé. And since a couple of times they’ve also referred to me as a former CIA agent, because I went to two Soviet-era communist youth festivals, I probably shouldn’t have done that, either. Yet if I hadn’t done both, I might have judged other people by such empty symbols, too.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 4 March 2017 source ↗
Jennifer Hudson American singer and actress
I wouldn’t change a thing. Every experience is a lesson learned.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 6 January 2018 source ↗

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