Asking my wife questions that don't need to be asked.
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The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A
The Guardian's The Q&A has retained this Proust-derived prompt from at least 2007 through 2026, and ABC independently put it to the Obamas in 2011.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 7 March 2026 source ↗
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View all 252 →I can’t say no. I am a people-pleaser, and it means that I burn myself out because I take on too much.
Oversharing. I long to be intimately connected to people and sometimes, among strangers, I don’t read the room.
Catastrophising.
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View profile →On radio, I once said “anal” instead of “angel”.
I assumed that once I reached some level of achievement, I would feel fixed.
Picking myself back up after very tricky times and trying again.
An air steward, because I loved airports. I wrote a letter to British Airways when I was seven and I’ve got the reply in the loft, which says, “You’re a bit young at seven but do stay in touch.” I was that kind of kid who was eager to start the ball rolling.
People have said, “I wish you would die.” That’s the stark truth of being in the public eye – people dehumanise you and say ghastly things.
Eager to learn.
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