Using knowledge as a weapon.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, January 2026 source ↗
The question
What trait do you most dislike in other people?Originally asked
The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A
A verbatim standing question in The Guardian's rotating Q&A questionnaire, documented across respondents and years.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Using knowledge as a weapon.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, January 2026 source ↗
People who aren’t polite.
Bigotry and cruelty in any form.
An arbitrary contrarian.
People not remembering who I am.
Cycling around Martha’s Vineyard alone in the summer of 1976.
Craving the kind of success I pretend to despise.
Taking an overnight train in Europe.
My children dying before me.
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